We are all trying to do our best with what we’ve got. Just be kind, and let those kids be kids, with whatever noise that might entail.
Support the better version of yourself with a better attitude and a better outlook for a better future. You can positively affect loved ones and those around you for a greater benefit from win-win situations.
Eventually people will live in health for such a long time that the sufferings of old age and death will scarcely be known.