The nightshade family. While the vast majority of people have no problems with nightshades, they can cause serious problems for anyone struggling with an autoimmune disease, as well as some people who simply have a digestive sensitivity to them.
We are all trying to do our best with what we’ve got. Just be kind, and let those kids be kids, with whatever noise that might entail.
Support the better version of yourself with a better attitude and a better outlook for a better future. You can positively affect loved ones and those around you for a greater benefit from win-win situations.